Confession: This year of Weston's medical training has been really hard on our family. He isn't home very often. He works really long hours day to day (averages bout 80 hours a week) and only gets 4 days off per month. We had a new baby not too long ago. That means I am by myself taking care of three kids. We see other people our age building brand new houses, going on fun weekend getaways, and just being able to spend time together, and it's easy to get down and have negative feelings about our situation. Really easy. We could (and sometimes do) complain about how hard our life is and how unfair everything seems, but that usually doesn't make things any better. The above quote is completely, 100% accurate. The times that I have been focused inward on how hard my situation is, are the times that have been the darkest for me. Whereas, on the flip side, the times that I have been more outward focused and trying to make the best of things are the times I have been happy!
I feel like a lot of times we depend on outside circumstances or people to make us happy. Well, guess what? If that's what we're waiting on, then there's a good chance we will never be happy. No thing or person can make us feel anything. That is completely up to us. So, if we want to be happy we have to make that choice for ourselves. SO! During this holiday season, I am going to challenge myself to find ways to serve others daily. It could be a member of my family, a friend, or even a stranger. I know this will help me forget about how hard my situation is and, in turn, make me a happier person. And we all know that when mom is happy, it's a lot easier for everyone else to be happy :)
**post edit: I have no idea what blogger did to my last post! I proof read and then it went crazy on me!
**post edit: I have no idea what blogger did to my last post! I proof read and then it went crazy on me!
Beautifully written, Nicole. I completely agree with you and believe the best way to find joy in your own life is to be thankful and serve others. -Kristen Young
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